Sunday, February 04, 2007

A 2 hour incident

UPDATE 15/02/07 - Happy birthday Anish! Have a great day, and a great year to come :)

They walk in, wearing the same colour, bags slung on their shoulders, their expressions un-readable. They make their way to the back of the room, perhaps in search of privacy from the chattering crowd, savouring food, having fun like a bunch of maniacs living the last day of their lives. They sit down, but not next to each other. He takes a seat at the rectangular table's longer side, and she at the shorter side. Their lines of sight intersect at a right angle. Silence seems like the preferred mode of communication for a while, or more than a while... She looks at him, he keeps his face straight, looking at the noisy group of girls right infront of him, perhaps wondering how people can still afford to be happy when his life seems like a road with way too many potholes...a road where enjoying a ride seems like a distant notion. She stares at him...at his unbelievable determination to not look her side...and then she looks away, perhaps with a mixed feeling of rage and guilt. She then pulls her bag up to the table, and places her head on the bag, her face down, as if in defeat. He finally looks at her...she doesn't move her head. He takes to looking outside the window above her head, where another gang sit on a parapet wall fooling around in the hot sun. The noisy group of girls were now getting louder with a video shoot..damn why did cellphones ever have to be invented?

She lifts her head, slightly relieved to see that he's changed the position of his head. She talks, like she's explaining something. He doesn't flinch. The expression on his face can now be clearly read as anger, and hers, apology mixed with anger. She continues to talk...he says something, and turns his head back to the group of girls, the anger and her words bringing tears to his eyes. They reverse postitions...he puts his head down, she stares straight ahead. Tired of looking at his lowered head, she begins to read. Out of the silence and the strained atmosphere, she hears a voice. She looks up to see a friend enquiring in a genuinely concerned tone whether everything's ok. She tells him its all fine, and he shrugs and walks away. He lifts his head after a while and she closes her book...she talks again. Her hands move...slapping the air in various directions...as she tries to prove her point, convince him, explain to him. The strands of her hair that escaped being tied back,dance on her forehead as she shakes her head vigorously in argument. He begins to talk, his face displaying pain as it could never be described, holding back tears. She fights back, making him remove the glasses that rested on his nose and place 3 fingers of his right hand on his closed eyes...She walks out on him. He sits there alone, his half grown beard complementing the eyes glistening with held-back tears, and his expression. The girls at the table infront of him are now busy almost breaking their juice glasses shouting cheers!


Just as he puts on his glasses, resigning himself to any fate, she walks back in with another couple. She sits next to him. Was the argument over? The foursome speak. The couple that joined them joke around a little. She looks at him for a long moment, and then places her head on his shoulder. He can't understand her, but he smiles. He smiles a big smile, with all his teeth, and pushes her head off his shoulder in mischeif. They both smile giving their faces an expression that seemed impossible a few minutes ago. Her kohl filled eyes also glisten with tears as she looks at him now, maybe feeling blessed to have ever met him, and to have him by her side till whenever... He looks at her smiling, seeming happy, but maybe wondering what it is in her that makes every argument so short lived, and why on earth looking into those kohl filled eyes and dancing strands on her face gave him such satisfaction. The noisy group of girls slowly lined out of the table infront of them.

Having witnessed this 2 hour drama, i have a question - Are relationships worth it all?

This topic is open for discussion ;-)

Yours "Some observation that"lySigning off...

40 comments:

Anonymous said...

vague..very vague, are relationships worth it?I guess a person who is in it will say yes, a person who isn't may say no or I don't know, and a person who has suffered a loss, will probably say no, or maybe if the person was really and genuinely into the relationship or whatever, he/she would probably relish those few momnets(if there were any)

Div said...

suk - :) I like your comment. Its as vague as my post! Doesn't really say what YOU think. But well, its true...opinions will differ greatly. And am sure every relationshio will have 'moments'!

Anonymous said...

I dunno whether relationships are worth it but damn these things...i dunno they are just so...nice-not nice...maybe that is love?beautiful, at the same time, consequences maybe disastrous?or maybe it's just one of those things, which you should rather not pin down , analyze and give a defenition..but just let it be as it is, and someday u'll understand it, without needing the definition?

Anonymous said...

'a relationship that finally works out is worth all the trouble that goes into making it work '
;) hain na
so all those tears,the anger,the misunderstanding,those little fights,those heated discussions - well if all that is finally going 2 bring both of them together 4 a lifetime -it's definitely worth it all,if not - then definitely not worth it.
divs loll u made us look like n insenstv lot,sitting there n havn fun in front of those 2 havn such a serious discsn,but well we ppl jus crack up,it was d wrong place 4 dem but really i cnt blieve that situ actly made u post on it ;)

Anonymous said...

by d way "or maybe it's just one of those things, which you should rather not pin down , analyze and give a defenition..but just let it be as it is, and someday u'll understand it, without needing the definition" - sukanya i must say that was reely a nice way of putting it, super ;) n u r much younger 2 us, rite divs? but dat was so nice, optimistic way of lukng at d whole thing :) way 2 go suk

Div said...

I must say am happy at the comments :)

Suk - I told u to put on those lines for a meaning :) see u already had sandhya appreciating them! They made so much sense...and its not the first time am telling you, but u don seem any younger to me. :) I think thats a beautful wa of lookin at it...Someday we'll understand it, without needing a definition... indeed :) super!

sand - I think we were very insensitive to their situation! But hell, if we din do all that we did, it'd become obvious that we were taking keen notice...and yes, very true that if the reln works at the end of it all, it'd be totally worth it. The whole thing is a test. If u can go thro all the tests it has to offer, and still stay strong n together, then u're meant to be...but the tests will keep comin for as long as u live... maybe only the initial ones count more, for all i know :) God bless!

Unknown said...

relationships..hmm...relationships...it makes u feel wanted n it feels good..n its fun if everythings goes rite...but life is not abt rite thngs always...so things will go the other way n u ve to follow that n take diversion...n finally..it'll again meet in the same road after sometime...n thats a good feelin ..when every bad scene gets over...!!
in a realtionship u come to knw abt urself more than u come to knw abt the othr half....!! so its cool..

Div said...

nil - experience seems to talk? ;-) But that thing abt the road and the diversion was nice :) but sometimes, the diversion becomes permanent...it never meets the same old road. And we get so accustomed to travelling in that diversion that the diversion becomes the road...but ofcourse i diversion must always take u where u were originally heading...so lets hope life's diversions work that way too!

Anonymous said...

sandhya and divs- thank you :):)

Div said...

suk - u're welcome! nothing more to say huh? ;-)

Unknown said...

diversions can never be permanent....thats y they are called diversions....diversions aren smooth...wen u travel by the road its a smooth life...n life is never strait..full of ups n downs...so these ups n downs are the diversions..n they becoeme alrite wen u get to the road..so diversions will head u to the road always...!!

Anonymous said...

ur welcome sukanya ;)

Div said...

nil - life's definitely full of ups and downs...

Anonymous said...

:D nope nothing more to say :)

Anonymous said...

i have no idea.

Div said...

tsb who's forgotten his password - You generally have no idea abt whether a reln is worth it all... but after reading the post, wat do u think? And well, hi - tsb who just confirmed that he's still alive!

:D

Maharaj Nilesh ki jai ho! said...

tsb who's forgotten his password-
TSB has no idea abt girls?

Div said...

nilz - u think its possible? for toronto tsb to have no idea abt girls? tsb, r u readin this?!

tsb said...

let me put it this way.

i can understand microbiology, immunology and cricket.

but i cant understand a single thing about girls. not a single thing, even though i've known some of them for about a yr and a half now.

Maharaj Nilesh ki jai ho! said...

@TSB- so that means basically tusbee doesn knw abt himself...herself...eeeeEEEHAHAHAHAHa!

Div said...

tsb - hmmmmmmmm. Havent u known any girls for over 1 and a half years? now this is getting intersting! And i dono if any guy wud come fwd n say 'i understand gals as well as i understand cricket!'

Any guys opposing that? ;-)

Nil - LOL

Nithya said...

are relationships worth it?

Certain relationships are..Certain aren't..

Relationships are basically abt 'sacrifice'..Somethings have to be sacrificed in order to keep that 'rope' taut...And this sacrifice has to come from both the 'parties', not just one..If one person keeps stooping so much and the other person's spinal cord doesn't even bend, then whats the use of having such a relationship ?

And yeah Sukanya's comment is real good :)

Div said...

nithya - sacrifice the rope there hmm... n yeah we have to know which ones are worth it, and which ones arent. :)

Unknown said...

i think nityas medical student!

Div said...

nil - why?!

Unknown said...

shes talkin abt spinal cord n all...if u take a topic frm relationship to spinal cords...she has to be...

Anonymous said...

Thanks a lot!!

Div said...

Nil - LOL! i believe shez biotech!

21 yr old anish - You're welcome! :D

Nithya said...

@ Nilesh --> Erm..Am a 'biotechie' :P

And yeah, it doesn't require an MBBS degree to utter the word spinal cord, does it ??? :D

Maharaj Nilesh ki jai ho! said...

@nitya- ok i get it...relationships are like spinal cord then...!!
y not some other part of the body..? hmmm...like hair...if the relationship's too weak...it'll fall...now do i make sense...??

@div- so u guys are classmates ha...

Nikhil said...

Divs, I didn't understand this post.

Anyway, nice post.

And yes, I am alive.

I think I should update my blog.

I just had a "Peace Meeting" a coupla days back, with You-Know-Who.

Blah blah blah.

Shruti said...

divs
no relationships aint worth it :)
i dint read through the comments chain.. this is a very very very strong opinion from a relationship cynic :)

Nithya said...

@ Nilesh ---> lol..NOw that was good..The first word (or rather the first part of the body) that I culd think of, when the word 'relationship' was mentioned was spinal cord..That's prolly one of the reasons y i used that word out here..And yeah 'hair fall' can also be used out here..and suppose the relationship is very strained or sumthin like that, i think the ppl having the hair fall problem shuld prolly go in for some 'thick,strong hair for you' shampoos :P

And yeah Divs and I aren't classmates :) Blogger Biotech Buddies :P

Div said...

nithya and nilez seem to be havin quite a convo! Enjoy ;-)

Nik - Welcome back! long time...and how cud u say its a nice post without understanding it? beats me! Thanks anyway. And maybe i shud forget abt the word update when it comes for u. Oly good part is that there's a huge 'really sorry' staring at the reader everytime the blog is opened ;-)

Shruti - AAAH! Strong opinion huh? Noted!

Nikhil said...

Yayyy, my blog is updated !!

Anonymous said...

did i read the word biotech?

<3

Div said...

tsb - ha u're still literate :D

Suchi said...

um...for a couple as confused as all that...I think no:)
But then, I'm a cynic.

Anonymous said...

its funny to read comments on relationships from ppl who ve never been in one- tell u what- its all nice and makes u feel all nice and deep abt such stuff when ur looking at it from outside-be in one and ur opinions and comments abt such stuff wont matter any longer
another thing- girl-guy relationship isnt the only relationship u have or is important-u come across so many other kinds of relationships-which teach u as much-where the same rules apply...

Div said...

lavanya - aah learn it all from the expert ;-)